The Shining of Youth and the Arrival of ‘Class Flavor’
Once upon a time, we were all spirited young people, filled with infinite expectations and aspirations for the future. However, as one enters the workplace and begins to struggle in the adult world, the “class atmosphere” gradually becomes apparent. The radiance in the eyes disappeared, replaced by a pair of “dead fish eyes”, with a dull complexion and occupational diseases such as carpal tunnel syndrome and “data neck” caused by prolonged exposure to computers, as if it were a standard for professionals.
Whether crossing the street, taking the subway, or queuing at a convenience store, you can always recognize each other at a glance with those office workers, exchange tired looks, and then tacitly lower your head to continue your respective “class style” lives. It seems that everyone understands that they cannot save themselves or others, they can only bless each other and continue moving forward.
Next, let’s take a look at several manifestations of strong “class flavor” and see to what extent your “class flavor” index has reached.
I used to be passionate about dressing up, but now I no longer care about it
We used to love fashion and beauty. Even if it’s just a meal with friends, carefully choose clothes and apply makeup. At that time, we enjoyed every process of dressing up, and makeup even became a part of life.
However, as the “class flavor” gradually intensifies, you begin to underestimate the external embellishments. Wearing clothes is mainly for comfort, and the number of times makeup is also limited. After all, no matter how well dressed you are, the supervisor won’t give you a raise because of it. So, you gradually accepted your professional appearance, what kind of class, what kind of self to match.
From loving taking photos to losing motivation: Life is just like that when you take pictures
When I was young, I always liked to use cameras and mobile phones to record every moment of life. When walking on the road and seeing something novel, I will take pictures, and when traveling, I can even fill up several memory cards, as if every moment is worth remembering.
However, as the “class flavor” deepened, many people began to feel indifferent. There are fewer happy times, more restless days, and the passion in my heart is also worn down by the trivialities of the workplace. I feel that no matter how I take pictures, life is still the same, and there is nothing worth recording again. Anyway, life is just like that, there’s nothing new about taking pictures.
Crazy social updates turn into immersing oneself in one’s own world
Once, we liked to share big and small things on social media platforms. Whether it’s your own little happiness or a friend’s funny story, posting it on social media not only allows you to reminisce, but also shares happiness with others. However, with the deepening of the “class flavor”, dealing with daily interpersonal relationships has become exhausting, and more often than not, people only want to hide in their own world and no longer have too much interaction with the outside world.
At this stage, you may begin to crave a “peaceful” life, with less and less social interaction, just wanting to stay away from the chaos and enjoy a moment of peace.
From message to refusal of contact: Don’t want to touch your phone after work
When we were young, our social enthusiasm was high, and we often replied immediately to any news, afraid of missing any information. Sharing fun things with friends is also anytime, anywhere, and even notifying friends and family as soon as possible.
And when you are exhausted by the daily trivialities of the workplace, your phone is no longer a tool for communication, but a shackle for the crowd. After work, facing a mountain of emails and unread messages, you just want to escape from everything and no longer want to touch your phone. You may even suffer from a transient ‘social phobia’, where you just want to keep a distance from the crowd and enjoy your alone time to the fullest.
From full of vitality to exhaustion: always feeling tired at work
Once upon a time, although you had to wake up at 6-7 am to go to school early, you were full of energy all day long, playing and laughing with your classmates. No matter how heavy the course is, energy is always strong.
However, when you enter the workplace, you will always feel tired. Even if you drink too much Americano in the morning, it won’t lift you up, just like filling up a run down car with gas. The inexplicable fatigue shrouds every day like a shadow.
Boredom and Lying Flat: Resting only makes me want to collapse on the sofa
When we were children, we had a wide range of interests and were always curious about new things. We drew, took risks, and tried various activities, as if everything had infinite fun. However, as the “class flavor” gradually became stronger, many people began to feel that everything was boring. No matter what activity comes to mind, the first thought that comes to mind is: Bored and unwilling to do it.
Faced with the unchanging files, projects, and to-do lists in the workplace, many people become numb and stay in a state of “staring blankly” all day long. Every blade of grass and every tree in life can no longer ignite the spark in your heart, because you have long forgotten their breath.
How to reduce the ‘class smell’?
Although “class smell” seems to be an inevitable phenomenon in workplace life, we can also regain our passion by changing our lifestyle. Even if the work is tedious and boring, we can cultivate new hobbies after work, share interesting things with friends, and maintain the vitality and curiosity in our hearts.
Don’t let the ‘taste of class’ become the last straw that crushes you. Even if the pressure and helplessness in the workplace cannot be completely avoided, we can still choose to embrace the diversity of life and find a different color in our daily work.