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Recently, the household chores of a Japanese couple have become a hot topic of discussion among netizens. This victim is a male anime fan who has a large collection of precious model dolls. However, these precious collectibles were smashed by his wife! After the incident was exposed online, it sparked intense discussions between two opposing factions among netizens.
One faction believes that the husband must have been at fault first, and the model being smashed is self inflicted. The other faction believes that regardless of the situation, the act of smashing things indiscriminately is unacceptable. So, which side would you stand on?
The initiator of this incident is a male user nicknamed “Eight” on the X platform. He shared photos of his model doll collection being smashed in the post, which quickly attracted widespread attention and heated discussion among netizens.
These model dolls were originally neatly arranged on a whole wall in the house, and Eit would conduct strength training in front of this wall every day while admiring his collection.
However, recently all of these collectibles were destroyed by my wife, and the photos of the debris scattered on the ground are heartbreaking· After posting these photos on social media, Eit quickly attracted a lot of attention from netizens.
Netizens who support their wives believe that the reason why they take extreme actions must be because their husbands’ long-term behavior has made it unbearable for them. These behaviors may be a neglect of family responsibilities, or an excessive obsession with one’s own hobbies while ignoring the feelings of one’s partner.
In this situation, the wife ultimately chose to express her pent up emotions by destroying these collectibles.
However, netizens who support the husband believe that it is unreasonable and unacceptable for a wife to destroy property regardless of what she is angry about.
They pointed out that people who can easily smash other people’s beloved collections are usually impulsive and unreasonable in their behavior. Many people have expressed that they would never be willing to live with such a person.
Due to Etat’s failure to provide a detailed account of the cause and effect of the incident, as well as his wife’s lack of statement, this debate lacked effective evidence and ultimately could only become an ideological war of words. Both sides are expressing their opinions and positions, but it is difficult to clearly judge who is right and who is wrong.
In the face of intense reactions from netizens, Eitai stated that he has received a lot of criticism and accusations, and some people have even threatened to expose his personal information. However, he insisted that he was not at fault in this matter and stated that he would not delete the post or hide his speech.
He also mentioned that this matter involves extremely complex and delicate emotional issues, so he is unwilling to provide more details and only hopes that everyone will stop attacking and criticizing. After sorting out his inner thoughts and contemplating his future plans, he will decide how to proceed.
This incident has triggered profound reflection on marriage and family relationships among people. The conflicts between spouses are not overnight events, often the result of years of accumulation. Regardless of who is right or wrong, the key lies in whether both parties can find a solution to the problem through communication and understanding, rather than venting emotions through extreme behavior. A family requires joint management by both parties, and any imbalance on one side can affect the harmony of the entire family.
The most important thing when dealing with marital relationships is mutual respect and understanding. Both parties need to realize that the other party also has their own needs and feelings, and cannot act solely based on their own preferences and habits. Meanwhile, communication is the key to solving problems. Only through effective communication can we understand each other’s true thoughts and find ways to face problems together.
For this couple, whether they can still live in peace in the future depends on whether they can re-examine their relationship after calming down and be willing to make efforts to repair it. Sometimes, conflicts in marriage do not necessarily mean an end, but rather an opportunity to get to know each other again and rebuild relationships. I hope they can find a solution and bring the family back to peace and harmony.